Sara cared tremendously about her appearance and the way she dressed. She took pride in being a Jewish daughter, a Bat Melech. She always dressed and acted appropriately in public.
She was extremely sensitive to other people's feelings. When she heard of a death, she would cry for hours, even if she didn't know the person who died very well.
After she married Ami, Yediot Acharonot took the time to put out a full smear campaign. From that moment, in public, she was no longer the quiet learned girl who had once been Rav Meir Kahane's secretary...she was "Ami' the Mass Murderer's Wife".
Even last week, on the news, she was "Ami's Wife".
Sara will be missed. But it will be a greater tragedy if those of us who knew her allow her to go on being remembered merely as "Ami's Wife".
Sara was a great person, who like the rest of us from America, was a survivor of the silent Holocaust. She was also a strong person, who made difficult choices and lived with them everyday.
Sara had a beautiful smile and a warm voice. That is the only way she should be remembered.
3 comments:
That spin must stop now.
Sarah z"l WAS Rabbi Ami Popper's hy"v wife.
She CHOSE to be his wife.
She chose to be his wife BECAUSE he was Ami Popper, the 7UP killer.
That's who she was, an integral part of her identity.
Your post describes how YOU would want to remember her, not how SHE would like to be remembered.
Moti,
With all due respect...were you a VERY close friend of her's? And how do you know how she wanted to be remembered? SORRY, I published your comment, but I disagree. You are not a woman, you cannot understand.
Nofyah
Among the lies that have been spread about this terrible tragedy is that no one in the car was seat-belted. Today I received the following e-mail:
b"h
Last week just before Shabbas the Popper family was in a fatal car crash in which the mother and the youngest child were niftaru. I don't have an update on the father and two sons who survived, but a friend of the family feels it is important that all know -- everyone in the car had on seat belts. Evidently at least 1 or 2 major newspapers reported, incorrectly, that they weren't belted:
shavua tov chana. regarding our past conversation: i spoke to Sara Gittel Z"L's brother Lenny regarding the seat belt issue. As anyone close to Sara knew, she was quite demanding that a car would not be started till all were in seat belts. We spoke about this at the levaya that it made no sense...the news articles that the children weren't belted?????? Lenny said that one of the boys in fact had to have stomach surgery because the seat belt had so gut damaged him. To disseminate such loshen h'ara is criminal and I am writing to the press to print retractions. -- Gittel
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